In a world filled with weighty news headlines, I want to take a moment to acknowledge and express deep respect for those embarking on the remarkable experience of surrogacy. To the intended parents and gestational carriers navigating this unique process, I commend your strength and resilience. As a surrogacy doula, my purpose is to offer unwavering support at every stage of the surrogacy process. In this blog, let's delve into the beauty of surrogacy and explore the invaluable support a surrogacy doula provides.

Firstly, let me say loudly and clearly: I value you. I recognize the challenges and emotional complexities that come with surrogacy, and I am here to support you wholeheartedly. The decision to build a family through surrogacy is proof of your courage and love. As a surrogacy doula, my mission is to stand by your side, offering guidance and assistance throughout this transformative experience.

Preparing for Baby's Arrival

My work with intended parents can commence at any point in the surrogacy process. Whether you are in the early planning stages or awaiting the imminent arrival of your baby, I am here to provide support. Together, we can prepare for your baby's arrival, addressing aspects such as newborn care, feeding, and safe sleep. From recommending baby gear to helping you set up your home efficiently, I strive to ensure that you feel confident and well-prepared for the joyous moment when your baby comes into the world.

Practical, Informational, and Emotional Support

Once your baby arrives, my role as a surrogacy doula extends to offering practical, informational, and emotional support. The early weeks and months of parenthood can be both exhilarating and challenging. I am here to assist you in navigating this transitional period, providing guidance on everything from diaper changes to creating effective systems and routines. My aim is to empower you with the knowledge and confidence needed to embrace the joys and challenges of parenthood.

Honoring Gestational Carriers

I am also honored to work with gestational carriers, providing dedicated support during the period of rest and recovery. Nurturing the physical and emotional well-being of women who have served in this capacity is a priority. From postpartum care to emotional reassurance, my role is to ensure that gestational carriers feel supported and valued throughout their own unique postpartum experience.

Virtual and In-Person Doula Support

Regardless of your location, I offer support to families virtually, through Zoom sessions and texting support. The flexibility of virtual support allows me to connect with intended parents and gestational carriers, offering guidance and encouragement throughout pregnancy and the postpartum period.

For those who live in the St. Louis area, or who will be traveling to St. Louis for the birth of your baby, I also provide in-person assistance.

Celebrating Your Family

The trust placed in my hands as a surrogacy doula is something I am honored to receive. I am genuinely excited to be part of your surrogacy experience and look forward to celebrating the growth of your family. Each step, from the initial planning to the arrival of your long-awaited baby, speaks to the love and commitment that defines surrogacy.

Surrogacy is undeniably a beautiful way to build a family, and the support of a surrogacy doula is a valuable asset throughout this process. From the early stages of planning to the postpartum period, my commitment is to stand by your side, offering guidance, reassurance, and practical assistance. To all those embarking on the path of surrogacy, know that you are valued, respected, and supported as you navigate the remarkable experience of creating a family through surrogacy.

About the Doula

Kathleen Robbins is a St. Louis-based postpartum doula and Certified Lactation Counselor. She offers virtual support to families in any area and in-person assistance to those in the St. Louis region. Reach out today to learn more about how Kathleen can support your growing family.